“Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather is one of those things that give value to survival.”
Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”
hello frnds today bringing frnds n frndship for you..i knw for many of us it will be very boring topic.but still want to share somethng with you..i knw i will not say anythng new abt frndship..rather its not necessary that i will be all right..but yeah watsoever i am going to share is totaly the experience of my life..nothng is frm outside..thats y it is possible that i mite hve not touch many points realted to the frnds n frndship..so plz forgive me for that..but surely will let u knw the more n more importance of frndship..
this small word gives lot of meaning to life.. many of us live for frndship n can also die for it. It’s the sweetest n most energetic feeling in everyone of us..frndship can show how beautiful life can be..it is a sweet relationship..its not just the relationship full of emotions rather a reflection too of goodness n endless belief. one who make frnds he realy know what the friendship is..its realy a heaven. because here we chose the people of our choice with whom we can live in any way we want..we are free to do anything with them.We can love them,get angry with them,can have lots of fight ,care for them,can demand the special attention frm them,can disturb them anytime,any, anything which we want frm them…as one knws that his frnds will not leave him in any of the good or bad situation…
Life is nothing without frndship because it’s the only relationship that one has the freedom to be one self..Seeing the frnds goodness with eyes closed,loving forever with reasons nevr disclosed…helping the frnd, wen the friend does wrong, singing together many a joyous song, wiping tears, sharing dreams are some beautiful facets of frndship that makes two strangers come together to walk many a distant mile..
When we are small child then we hardly knw abt the frnds n their sweet frndships..we are just surrounded with our parents n siblings n relatives..then as soon as we strted going schools our parents taught us to make frnds n strt making frnds circles n all..talk with eryone in ur class b interactive..in the schools..help them play with them n many more thngs..our teachers taught us to be togther, play together…I think this was the reason that in my school there was the shuffling of seats on weekly basis…so that each n evry student can be in contact with others..then slowly as soon as we reach the intermediate level we can diffrntiate our frnds frm the collogues…it seems so absurd that till last few yrs the whole class was supposed to be our frnd circle..but as soon as we were growing our frnd circle was contracting…it’s a very natural process..as we had strted understanding the people n able to find out the friends from the whole croud…till now we knw with whom we can have a better bonding…for whom we can do anything..for whom we will be ready to give our hand anytime for any type of help..
Then when we move to our graduate level then the sense n meaning both changes regarding the frnds..many make frnds for their personal uses n they literally use the people in the name of frndship n many have the real frndship also..
The real frndship really gives u lots of happiness..u r free to move boldly n free to do any thing.. In life no more fear remains as soon as the real frnd enter into ur life…as u knw some one beside is always there for you…in any of ur bad situation he/she will help u out..he wont ask you y u had done this…he will only say be dere I am coming!!!!!!!or dnt worry I m with you..evrythng gonna be all right!!!
Its very rightly said that alone you may not be able to achieve smthng but yeah together YOU CAN !!!!DEFINAITELY…NO ONE CAN STOP YOU…
A true frnd is always dere for you..he hardly thnks abt the situation, the time ,society or any other social or personal matters..at the time of ur need the true frnd of urs will be dere beside you..anyhow..may be physically he wont b able to do that but yeah menatally he will make you feel that dnt worry I am there with you..thngs will be fine..
I knw the meaning of true frnd..as I had them in my life…n also knw their importance as I had lost them frm my life bcz of my stupid deeds..wich were non forgiving!!!
I will say dnt evr dare to lose ur true frnd in any of ur life’s situation bcz the situation can be handle it out n it will not remain the same but the true frnds once lost will not return into ur life..bcz he/she is also a human being. n ur hurtng words n deeds will definitely hurt them at some corner of their heart..n as these pinches increases they strt avoiding you n silently left ur lif n circle..u hardly understd anthng when all of a sudden it happened but after few time u gonna able to realize the faults n all..but till that time u cant regain the thngs n people..its very righly said…
Once spoken out the words frm ur mouth n the deeds of urs will not be possible taken back…they will either give pleasure to someone or they will hrt someone..i will not say dnt be free to say anything frm ur frnd..but yeah surely dnt be so free that it strt hurting ur frnd..u must be free..but ur freedom shld have some responsibility also ,i.e not to hurt ur frnds byur deeds or words..so plz always try to make long lasting true frndship..it realy gives meaning to your life..
True frndship lasts only if it has a fabulous foundation…one is fortunate, if happiness is found in frndship, and if it found then one is fortunate to possess that frndship..true frndship comes when silence between two people is comfortable n wen evrythng is said n done n understood in just few words..
In the process of making this true relationship of ones life one has to gone thru many expectations..its a two way process..means both of the people have expecations frm each other..they seems to be very small but when the time comes to do that we only try to give all the big reasons n excuses behind it..
They are few:
Be in contact daily just either by sms or a 2 mins call..
Wen come online tell me so that we can have a chat..
Wen I msg you kindly give me the reply..dnt forget it..
Dnt forget to reply my mails..as I will be waitin for it..
Tell me the happenings of ur life..
If u r in difficulty plz let me knw abt it…
Dnt hide anything frm me…
Wish first on my birthday..
Bla bla bla….
Isnt it easy to hear..but truly speaking its not easy to do..i have huge fights with my frnds for these thngs!!!hahahha!!!!!we are expert in giving many types of excuses..but if try we will be able to do these thngs..they hardly kill any of ur time.rather give some relaxation frm our hectic life..few words frm ur frnd will definitely gonna give u lots of energy..still we find excuses..BAD NA!!!!
We love our true frnd,share our secrets,happiness,joys,sorrows erythng..
SHARED JOY IS DOUBLE JOY AND SHARED SORROW IS HALF-SORROW AND IN FRNDSHIP,JOY AND SORROWS ARE OFTEN SHARED,MAKING LIFE A HAPPY ONE AND FULL OF CONTENTMENT TOO.
A true frnd of urs will make u comfortable in doing anything..i remember one of my frnd..i suppose to be hers true frnd..best frnd..but!!i keep on questioning her for each small n big activity..i wanted to have all the reasons for evrythng..keep on questioning her..so BAD OF ME!!!!!! I was a least frnd n more of a warden..hahahaha…
So plz give space to your frnd..he/she then only will rely upon you, can feel to share anything from you they will never hide frm you anythng n then only u can be a true frnd..
Plz believe in ur frnd n ur frndship..if u fell that the person isur frnd then try to have some faith also in him/her..if u want that the person should be dere for you anytime anywhere for you then you have to built such type of raltionship..only demands never exist.. there must be some supply also..You have to nurture ur frndship with lots of beliefs faith space ignorance of weaknesses,motivation of strength…..evrythng…
If u really want to be a true frnd plz try to accept that person as he/she is..dont try to chnge them by just blackmailing them at the cost of frndship..this type of frndship can never be lasting!!!!!!
Do rmember you shld be dere to wipe the tears of ur frnd not dere to give it..you shld be dere to give lots of happiness not to snatch it..rmemeber you have to snatch all the sorrows of your frnd not to give them..its easy to say and believe me its easy to do also..just by believing on each other..
BELIEF—this you have to attain within urself for ur frnd..wen belief strts missing then day by day frndship also starts missing somewhere..
So plz dnt let it happen anyway..as frndship is the treasure of life. if true frndship is not dere in life, ur life will be somewhere incomplete..SO DARE TO COMPLETE IT!!!!
“It is more shameful to distrust one’s friends than to be deceived by them.”
One can have long lasting frndship..its possible to have…yeah its possible to have…but now a days people start believing that its not possible..as life being more n more practical n professional..Still I will say there is always a place n time for a frnd..how much u will be busy..still u will have time to have chat with them..
You can have a divourse frm ur spouse but cannot have it with ur frnd..
TRUE FRNDS ARE TREASURE
TREU FRIENDSHIP IS FOREVER..
TRUE FRNDSHIP IS LIFE!!!!
“Do not save your loving speeches, For your friends till they are dead; Do not write them on their tombstones, Speak them rather now instead…
take out just few mins to say or to msg urfrnd..”I miss you”’”I care for you””I WANT TO BE DERE FOR YOU”….they will not killur time anyhow..plzz take out some time..these few words will give all the indirect support love n care to ur frnd that u cant even imagine it!!!
today i want to apologize from all of my friends to whom i had hurt ed at any time..plz forgive me..n i will request everyone plz dont ever dare to lose ur frnds anyhow..once they left you they wont come back..they mean lot to life..