Our eyes, mind and heart always want to see everything as beautiful as we see in our dream. But why reality is not always like we wanted? You certainly have dreams, hopes, wishes or desires. The question is, has any of it came true? Or how much have you tried to realize it?
This article will challenge you to design a better future. But before you continue reading, prepare a pencil and a book to note important things. Also, prepare your mind, heart, sincerity and honesty to accept these theorem below :
- An honest self acknowledgment is the key to your success
- Courage will deliver you to the right path
- A willing to learn behavior is an enlightening friend in your journey
- Modesty is the weapon to get through all boundaries
After you have understood all the theorem above, lets sail into your self to understand it, find your dream and achieve it.
An honest self recognition is a wise attitude before you want to be extraordinary. That way, you will find your strength and weakness. “Me and my dreams” is the deepest form of need inside of everyone. To recognize yourself you have to reset what your desires exactly are. What I want to be in the next 3, 5, 10 years ahead? Extraordinary people always search for environments that are able to support themselves to become what they dream. If they have not found it, they don’t give up! Instead, they create their own environment. Please introspect yourself, are your dreams in accordance and have the appropriate environment. If not, you have to dare yourself to get out from the path you are on. Take courage to change your way! Then, decided your desire and hold on to it. Recognize yourself with your dreams.
How do you see yourself? Do you see yourself as a weak, low, apathy, selfish, sucks, shy, afraid to fail person or any other negative act and attitude? A good self image is an absolute precondition to become an extraordinary man. If all this time you are pessimistic to yourself, then it is time to change yourself to be optimistic, highly appreciated, ambitious, and dare to take on challenges and risks. Each person has the right to be successful. Each person has the right to decide his desire as high as possible, has the right to get his desire. As long as you feel unworthy, incapable, it means you insult yourself too much. You have stepped on your self image. That is why you have to fix the way you see yourself. Fix your self image.
Self esteem is your feelings or how much you love yourself. Have you ever imagine yourself as a famous movie star, adored and appreciated by many people? Don’t you feel so extraordinary in your heart and feelings? Doesn’t it affect your feelings? Doesn’t it then you come to love yourself more? That is a self esteem. To love, proud, and care to yourself is an important essence to be extraordinary. It is impossible for others to appreciate you if you never appreciate yourself either. If you give yourself a perfect score, 10, then others will also give 10, even more! On the contrary, if you don’t appreciate yourself, so cheaply appreciate yourself, others will do the same to you. So, appreciate yourself as much as possible.
It is impossible for you to be always motivated all the time. There are times when life seems so difficult, that you lost your motivation. But on the contrary, if you are feeling happy you will get that motivation back. Motivation will emerge according to your life value, desire, necessity and ambition. Motivation also comes if we are going to travel, our life is in threat or when we are facing a risk. So, when you lost your motivation, it is time to challenge yourself. Create again that lost motivation. How? Do these things : Stay enthusiastic, fill yourself with anxiousness, read books, listen to motivation cassette, contemplate your dreams, imagine when your dream are fulfilled, realize that you are in the process of change, and stop hoping that life will be easier. Challenging yourself means you dare to acknowledge every strength and weakness. You have to be ready to change them into power and strength. Dare to challenge yourself means you have entered the world of the highest commitment in the process to achieve your own victory.
Take a step forward
After you are certain with the path you chose, it is time to take a step forward. Preparation is absolutely needed in your journey to become an extraordinary man. Things that you have to do are : change frustration into action. It is time for you to leave your concepts, methods, work strategies and old habits. Change to new ones. It is time to rise, wake up and realize that you can be extraordinary if you are willing to pay the price. What do you have to do? Make a list of the best attitude and throw the bad ones. Keep your spirit and passion, keep learning to develop your potency, personality, challenges, always speak positively, make a better achievement, always in contact with everyone, always motivate yourself all the time, and understand the law of harvest. If you want durian, don’t plant a corn seed.
After recognizing yourself, dare to challenge yourself, start to move forward into improvement, progress, positive self-development, then get ready to accept your birth as an extraordinary man. Think first before act is the way of extraordinary men. Your vehicle is a facility you use to go to your desired future. Your vehicle is your spirit.
In the end, willingness and choices will decide whether you want to be extraordinary man or just ordinary. No matter who you are, where you came from, if you are willing and if you choose to become an extraordinary man, you can. But if you don’t want to, your life will never change. If you don’t make a choice, don’t blame your circumstances. You are the one who decide where your destination is, with who, what to bring, how much supplies, when to leave, which way to travel, everything depends on your own choice and decision. Becoming extraordinary is just one of so many choices you can make in your life. You can if you want it.